Wife's Money Spent on Husband's Family?

i am sure you will not like what i am going to tell you, but if you plan to life with that man, just do it, i know you hate it, and probably hate them too for a reason, but they are still his family regardless of how you feel about it. he will never forgive you , and if will just be an ongoing issue for the rest of the life :( if you are not sure that you will live with him... tell him to earn the money, as really that would be the right thing to do :) good luck